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Transitioning to Allowing

Transition to allowing instead of concentrating on trying to control everything.

Often, we want things so badly that we try to control the situation.

If we try to control everything all the time, we close ourselves off to allowing. Sometimes by relinquishing the control and by just allowing something to happen, better things will be revealed. Knowing and understanding that we really only have control over ourselves and nothing else can ease the stress of the situation because thinking that we can control it only creates tension and anxiety.

Learn to let go and open your heart to amazing possibilities. Do not underestimate the power of choosing to allow yourself greater things. Just learn to relax and let go of the need to be emotionally involved in every decision you make. What consumes your thoughts will have control over your life.

Learning to allow instead of control things is necessary for our own inner peace.

I learned to allow myself to forgive others and stop holding grudges. I learned to open up my heart and allow others in. I allowed myself to be happy with the littlest of things. I allowed myself to understand that not everyone is going to like me or like what I do.

I allowed myself to live for today and to let go of yesterday. I learned to allow myself to have boundaries. I learned to allow myself to do things for myself instead of always doing for others. I now allow others to do things for me.

I allow myself to set my own goals and set priorities. I allow myself to say no instead of saying yes when I really don’t want to say yes. I have learned to allow myself to just be happy. I have learned to allow myself to be choosy about who and what I want in my life.

I learned to stop allowing others in my life to control me and my emotions. I learned to stop allowing other’s words and actions to hurt me. I learned to not allow others to control my actions. I have learned to stop others negativity set the tone for my day.

When you release the need to control everything and choose to allow, it opens up a whole new world of possibilities.

Pay attention to the way you are feeling and then choose those thoughts that help you to release the control. Visualize it happening instead of telling yourself to make it happen. If you are always thinking of how you want things to be, you may never find out how amazing they could be.

Take life day by day and realize that most of your life is out of your hands. If its out of your hands, don’t allow it to be in your mind. Don’t get caught up in the need to control everything. Too many disappointments happen when you expect too much. Just breathe and let go.

Peace of mind will never happen for you if you don’t learn to have faith and just allow. Love yourself enough to allow that to happen. Let the situation be what it is not what you think it should be. What you allow will keep happening if you allow it.

“It all begins and ends in your mind. What you give power to has power over you, if you allow it.” Leon Brown

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Peter Schafer
Peter Schafer
Jun 01, 2021

Living in the exact moment is a key to mindfulness and happiness. Kindness and caring come in the moment, so love the moment. It's the only thing you can control.

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